You will survive


This is to the girl , That is crying right now the heart break being fresh in her mind. This is for the girl who cannot get him out of her mind. I see you , how well put together you are sometimes and then sometimes you just fall apart.
I was that girl , I still see that girl somedays she doesn't want to get up but she knows that she must face the day with everything she has. Who sees the couples on the sidewalk and in church or the coffee shop. Wishing that was still her, who still held on to that promise that he might show up one day. With a vase of flowers and wanting to tell her everything was alright. Honey he wont come back he wont ever come back. Maybe by some miracle he might come back , but what is the advantage in that? What is the true reward , if he comes back with his head hung low he just might be the same person that you left.
You know what you need to do? You need to take a bath , not just a normal bath , buy one of those fun bath bombs. Paint your toenails , shave your legs , put on a face mask. Lay down in the tub and breathe , listen to the heartbreak songs . Relax and take a moment to breathe and enjoy the quiet , to pick yourself up and feel better. Relax , then you need to go , but first save a little bit and then go and shop buy yourself an outfit , get your nails done. Smile , get that purse , go on that trip that he thought was silly. Go see that movie that you always wanted to see or look around in a shop that he thought was silly. Enjoy these moments take them in , travel if you can if not find something new in your current town. Then see your friends , meet new friends , take new experiences in plan those trips you always wanted to do. Enjoy yourself , as time goes by you are going to start to notice , that you stopped thinking about him you seem to think about him less and thinking about yourself more.. see .. you are doing it . And what is that ? You are moving on .. You are priceless and worth it . Dont ever forget that.

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